Kaintophobia: The Fear of Change
I fear change. Change can be as simple as a new date due for an assignement or as drastic as a death in the family. Regardless, I hate change.
Change can be scary for many people. It can cause stress, confusion, misunderstanding and concern...
What I have recently learnt is, change produces growth. If nothing changed, not only would life be dull, we would not grow.
Change is a common occurrence in my life. I have never had a long friendship with someone. This always changes.
As a teenager, I dated many boys, so my relationships were always changing.
I changed schools multiple times.
I changed religion multiple times.
My name has changed multiple times, because I hated everyone misspelling my real one.
Change is scary, because I have always allowed it to control my life.
But this has led me to a great life.
I adore my name. I have a best friend. I am in a committed relationship. And the one thing that will never change is God's love for me.
Change can be good. Look for the growth.
Your Starfish Story is still being written. . . Have faith
Change is not scary...it's terrifying. Good for you that, despite any misgivings, you've had and embraced a lot of it. And have the life you want.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I think the anticipation of change is almost the hardest part of it. Change can be scary to deal with but I find that in the end it is what helps us to grow and change.
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